If you’ve upset or wronged your boyfriend you are going to want to apologize. A sincere apology that shows you’re sorry for whatever you’ve done will go a long way to healing a rift.
But writing an apology and finding the words to say sorry is hard. Knowing what to say to really show you regret whatever you did can be tough.
So use these apology messages and notes to help you say sorry to your boyfriend.
Simple and Sweet Apologies
Sometimes a straightforward apology without any elaborate explanations works best. These messages express your sincere regret and desire to make amends.
- I’m truly sorry for what I did. Please forgive me.
- My actions were thoughtless, and I regret them deeply. I’m sorry.
- I miss us. I’m sorry for the pain I’ve caused.
- Can we talk? I hate this distance between us. I’m really sorry.
- My heart hurts knowing I’ve hurt yours. I’m so sorry.
- I never wanted to make you feel this way. I’m sorry.
- I’m sorry for not listening to you when you needed me to.
- I took you for granted, and I’m deeply sorry for that.
- Please accept my heartfelt apology. I miss your smile.
- I’m sorry for letting my emotions get the better of me. I value you more than words can say.
Apologies After an Argument
Arguments can leave scars. But thankfully sincere apologies can heal them. So use these messages meant to help make things better after a disagreement.
- I’m sorry for the words I said in anger. Let’s work through this together.
- Our argument showed me how much I don’t want to lose you. I’m sorry.
- I let my pride get in the way of our happiness. I’m truly sorry.
- Sorry for the harsh words. Your feelings matter to me more than being right.
- I’m sorry for raising my voice. You deserve better, and I will do better.
- Can we forgive and learn from this? I’m deeply sorry for my part in our argument.
- I hate that we fought. I’m sorry for the hurtful things I said.
- Our love is stronger than any argument. I’m sorry for my stubbornness.
- I’m sorry for not being a better listener when it mattered the most.
- Let’s heal from this together. I’m sorry for the pain I’ve caused.
Long Distance Relationship Apologies
Distance challenges relationships but a few heartfelt words can make all the difference.
- I’m sorry for making you feel alone. You’re always in my heart, no matter the distance.
- Distance has been hard, and I’m sorry for not being there when you needed me.
- I regret letting the distance lead to misunderstandings. I’m deeply sorry.
- Sorry for not making more effort to communicate better. You mean the world to me.
- I miss you terribly and I’m sorry if I haven’t shown it enough.
- I’m sorry for the times my words fell short. I love you more every day.
- Sorry for letting the distance make me forget to show how much I care.
- I’m sorry for the moments you felt neglected. I promise to make it up to you.
- Let’s turn this distance into strength. I’m sorry for my part in any heartache.
- I’m sorry for the lonely nights. I’m counting down the days until we’re together again.
Forgiveness Pleas for Broken Trust
Regaining trust takes time. You need to properly demonstrate you can be trusted again. A good starting point is with a message that asks for forgiveness when trust was compromised.
- I’m sorry for breaking your trust. Please give me a chance to earn it back.
- Breaking your trust is my biggest regret. I’m committed to making things right.
- I understand the damage I’ve done. I’m sorry and ready to rebuild our trust.
- I’m sorry for the secrets I kept. Honesty will be my path forward with you.
- Sorry for letting you down. I promise to be the partner you deserve.
- I’m sorry for the betrayal. I understand if you need time, but I’m here to stay and make it right.
- My actions were unacceptable. I’m deeply sorry and hope for your forgiveness.
- I’m sorry for the lies. Transparency and truth will guide me from now on.
- Please forgive my foolish actions. I value our relationship above all.
- I’m sorry for the hurt I caused. I’m learning from my mistakes and putting us first.
Apologies for Being Inattentive or Neglectful
Neglect, whether intentional or not, can leave a partner feeling unwanted. These messages express remorse for times when you may not have been as present or attentive as you should have been.
- I’m sorry for the times I seemed distant. Your presence means everything to me.
- Sorry for not being there when you needed me the most. I want to make it right.
- I regret not making more time for us. You’re my priority, and I’m sorry for not showing it.
- Sorry for the moments you felt taken for granted. I cherish you more than words can express.
- I’m sorry for letting distractions come between us. You deserve my full attention.
- Looking back, I see how I’ve neglected our love. I’m truly sorry and want to change that.
- Sorry for not listening with my full heart. Your thoughts and feelings are precious to me.
- I apologize for the times I wasn’t fully present. You’re worth all the time in the world.
- Sorry for the days I made you question your worth. You’re my treasure, and I regret my neglect.
- I’m sorry for every time I didn’t make you feel special. Let me show you how much you mean to me.
In every relationship there will be moments of misunderstanding and hurt. That’s just inevitable.
But it’s the willingness to acknowledge our mistakes and seek forgiveness that really matters. So reach out to your boyfriend and say sorry. It will be the start of the healing process.
Sally Gibson is the founder of Someone Sent you a Greeting, a holiday/celebration website. Sally’s writing work has been mentioned in Woman’s World, Yahoo, Women’s Health, MSN and more. If you have any questions get in contact with one of the team via the about page.