Finding the right words for someone who isn’t keen on celebrating their birthday can be tricky. It might be they’ve had bad experiences with birthdays, are uncomfortable with getting older or just not bothered about all the fuss.
Whatever the reason some people simply don’t like birthdays. But you might still want to wish them a happy birthday regardless.
So use these wishes to respect their feelings while offering some kind words for the big day.
Simple and Sweet Wishes
For those who prefer something low key but meaningful these wishes say happy birthday but without overdoing it.
- Here’s to a day of simple pleasures. Happy birthday.
- Wishing you a day that feels just right for you, whatever that is. Hope you enjoy yourself.
- Here’s to another year of being great at being you! Happy bday.
- Happy birthday! I hope it’s as awesome as you are, in the most chill way possible of course.
- Here’s to the simple things that bring you joy… even if that isn’t your birthday!
- Thinking of you and hoping your day brings you some good moments.
- I’ve been trying to think of a subtle way to wish you a happy birthday but I couldn’t. So – happy birthday!
- I hope that your day is peaceful, fun and you can enjoy your favorite comforts.
- Wishing you a year of little joys and big achievements.
Funny Messages
Lighten the mood with these funny wishes that are sure to crack a smile. Even for those who usually say “bah humbug” to birthdays.
- Happy Day of Your Existence. No big deal, right?
- Happy Annual ‘You Managed to Survive Again’ Day!
- You’re not old, you’re vintage! Happy Birthday!
- Here’s to not acting your age on your birthday. Or ever.
- Let’s toast to the one day where you’re the oldest you’ve ever been and the youngest you’ll ever be again.
- Happy the-day-that-cannot-be-named… but with cake!
- Another year older and you’re still rocking it. Must be nice!
- Age is just a number, and yours is unlisted.
Thoughtful and Reflective Wishes
These wishes are meant to go a little deeper and be personal or meaningful.
- May this year bring you closer to your dreams and fill your path with less obstacles.
- Here’s to the experiences that made you who you are and to your personal new year filled with possibilities.
- Here’s to another year of growing, learning and loving. Best wishes for today.
- On this day I’m reflecting on the wonderful person you are and feeling grateful to know you. Have a wonderful birthday.
- May your birthday be a moment to pause, reflect and look forward to the amazing things to come. Sending happy wishes.
- May this year turn out to be your best chapter yet and one that is filled with both personal growth and happiness.
- Your birthday is more than a celebration of you being another year older. It’s the opportunity to celebrate you and the journey you’re on. So I’m wishing you happiness and fulfillment along the way.
- Your birthday is a reminder of your unique place in this world and the importance of you in our lives. Happy birthday to someone very special to us.
Understated Messages
These messages are perfect for those who like to keep it as low key as possible.
- Here’s to a good day.
- Thinking of you today.
- Wishing you a quiet day with some happy memories.
- I hope today is just another day but with a little extra happiness.
- I will be quietly celebrating you today.
- Wishing you a peaceful and happy day.
- I know you so I know you will want a chill day. Enjoy!
- Take it easy and enjoy any celebrations you have today.
Encouraging and Uplifting Notes
Sometimes all we need are a few words of encouragement, especially on a birthday. These wishes should raise the spirits on their special day.
- May you find more reasons to smile in the coming year.
- You’ve got this year. Face it head on and own it. Happy bday.
- Remember – the best is yet to come. Happy Birthday!
- Believe in yourself as much as I believe in you. Have a fantastic year ahead!
- Here’s to another year of overcoming any obstacle and thriving in whatever you choose to do. Happy birthday.
- Here’s to you – exactly as you are. You’re enough and I’m grateful for you.
- May your year ahead be as generous and kind as you are.
- Keep being amazing, and let the world catch up.
Wishes for an Introvert
These are wishes for the introspective souls and being mindful of their space whilst still celebrating their big day.
- Thinking of you from afar and sending good but peaceful vibes your way.
- Here’s to a day with as much or as little interaction as you wish. Happy birthday.
- Sending you good vibes for a day of relaxation and self-care.
- Do the things you want today and that make you feel comfortable. Don’t feel obligated to celebrate a certain way just because it’s the norm. Whatever is right for you is good! Happy birthday.
- Sending you calm thoughts for your birthday. May it be everything you wish for.
- Enjoy your birthday with some recharging of your batteries and quiet celebrations.
- Here’s to a day filled with peaceful moments and maybe a good cup of tea. Wishing you a wonderful birthday.
It’s not easy finding the right words for a birthday message for someone who doesn’t like birthdays. Hopefully these examples will have given you some ideas and help with what to say or write.
Sally Gibson is the founder of Someone Sent you a Greeting, a holiday/celebration website. Sally’s writing work has been mentioned in Woman’s World, Yahoo, Women’s Health, MSN and more. If you have any questions get in contact with one of the team via the about page.